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Tips For Having A Regular Date Night With Your Spouse
“What is the definition of regular?” Which of my husband’s and my dates are regular? Does this mean “a” as in one night of going out on a “regular” date? Or do I need to think of ways to form and continue a pattern of going on dates with my husband? Do my spouse and I share the same definition of date? My husband’s and my definition of “date” is like water in a container. Our situation molds our shape. One day we slide in 15 minutes for a dip in the hot tub. And the next day, we spend 20 minutes to play card games, 30 minutes to run…
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Fear Of Abandonment: The Ultimate Guide
A person walks in your life; they create their very own special place in your heart. And then one fine day, they leave you. Along with the bittersweet memories, you are also left with the fear of abandonment. What Is Fear Of Abandonment? Fear of abandonment refers to the insecurities that arise from the fear that someone will leave you. Here, “leaving” refers to both death and the action of walking away from someone’s life. The fear of losing someone or the fear of being left alone is universal; hence, it is pretty normal. But then how and why the fear of abandonment becomes an issue? Fear of abandonment is…
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The Thin Line Between Negative And Positive Relationship Habits
To decide what is right and what is not can be difficult. Your decision decides your actions. And the stakes are really high when it comes to a relationship. Today, we will be discussing about relationship habits. There is no right way of handling a relationship. Anything that works is right. Do you believe this? Well, I disagree. How do you tell that a relationship is working? What are the criteria that you ave set? For many people, a relationship is successful as long it has the labels with it. Girlfriend and boyfriend? Wife and husband? Yeah, we are in a relationship! But can a relationship be this shallow? I think…
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Dear Ex, Thank You For Breaking Up With Me
“I am attracted towards a colleague of mine and I think things are not working between us. It’s over…” You said this hurriedly as your new found love was waiting on the other side of the call. And just like that within a minute, everything was over. I felt my world crumbled, I was devastated then but I am happy now. Little did I know that I messed up with the foundation of my so-called little world. I remember telling you like a little child that you can keep us both and I feel like slapping myself for stooping so low. Back then, everything felt black but all that now…