“What is the definition of regular?” Which of my husband’s and my dates are regular? Does this mean “a” as in one night of going out on a “regular” date? Or do I need to think of ways to form and continue a pattern of going on dates with my husband? Do my spouse and I share the same definition of date? My husband’s and my definition of “date” is like water in a container. Our situation molds our shape. One day we slide in 15 minutes for a dip in the hot tub. And the next day, we spend 20 minutes to play card games, 30 minutes to run…